These days people want to just act. To get it on. To just do it. To take the plunge. They say that if you don’t do it then you’ll never stop wondering what could have been. But on the other hand, if you indeed do it and fail then you end up wondering what could have been had you done it some other way. And you wish you could have done it this other way. But it’s already done and, worse, probably it’s irreversible. So I say, before you do it, say something, send that email, send that SMS, think hard and think twice. Take a look before you take that leap.